Kodwa kufuneka ndikucacisele ukuba yazalwa njani yonke le ngcamango iphosakeleyo yokugxeka ulonwabo kunye nokudumisa intlungu kwaye ndiya kukunika ingxelo epheleleyo yenkqubo kwaye ndicacise iimfundiso zokwenene zomhloli omkhulu wenyaniso., umakhi onobuchule bolonwabo lomntu.
Akukho mntu uyala, ukungathandi, okanye ukuphepha ukuziyolisa ngokwako, ngokuba kuluyolo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba abo bangayaziyo indlela yokusukela uyolo ngokusengqiqweni badibana neziphumo ezibuhlungu kakhulu. Kananjalo akakho nabani na othanda okanye osukelayo okanye onqwenela ukufumana intlungu ngokwayo, kuba kubuhlungu, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ngamanye amaxesha kubakho iimeko apho ukubulaleka neentlungu zinokumzisela uyolo olukhulu.
Ukuthatha umzekelo ongabalulekanga, ngubani na kuthi owakha wenza umthambo onzima, ngaphandle kokuzuza okuthile kuyo? Kodwa ngubani na onelungelo lokufumana impazamo kwindoda ekhetha ukonwabela ulonwabo olungenamiphumo ecaphukisayo, okanye umntu oziphephayo iintlungu ezingavelisiyo uyolo? Kwelinye icala, sigxeka ngokucaphuka kobulungisa kwaye singawathandi amadoda alahlekiswe kwaye aphelelwe ngamandla ngamakhubalo olonwabo okwangoku., bamfanyekiswe ngumnqweno, abangenako ukukubona kwangaphambili
